As a work-at-home mom, I have several weekly conference calls.
I try and schedule my calls for the afternoon when my oldest is in school.
Handling one child and a call at the same time is hard enough.
However, it does not always work out that way. Sometimes I need to schedule the call in the morning when both kids are raring to go!
Over the past two years, I’ve learned a few tricks to getting through a conference call with kids around.
Tip #1: Have the talk.
This depends on how old your children are. I know my 3YO doesn’t quite get it yet and thinks it’s a game, but my almost 6YO does.
I try to sit them down and say, “Mommy has a very important call in a little while. I need the both of you to be good for me.” This doesn’t always work, but I feel the need to prepare them.
I want them to understand that when I’m on the phone {whether it’s business or personal}, they need to be on good behavior. We are still working on this.
Tip #2: Spend time with them.
I’ve learned the hard way, if I don’t spend time with them before my meeting then as soon as I pick up the phone they’ll come running into the room crying and hanging on my legs.
Now I set aside a hour or so before my call to make sure I give them my undivided attention. We’ll play games, dance, read, color and snuggle on the couch.
When I carve out time for them, they feel fulfilled and I can usually get through my call without interruptions.
Tip #3: Prepare and get organized.
It’s important to make sure you have all the materials you need for your call. I open up my browser, lay out the documents I’ll need, and make sure my notebook and pen are handy.
There is nothing like scrambling for something you need, while hearing kids crying in the background. Talk about stressful!
Make sure to get yourself prepared ahead of time, it’s one worry you can cross off your list.
Tip #4: Get them set-up.
About ten minutes before my call, I make sure they are set-up with an activity. I try to think about what they’ll most likely ask me for while I’m on the call.
Drinks – check. Snacks – check.
This helps avoid freak outs or meltdowns.
Tip #5: Mute is your new best friend.
Oh how I love the mute button! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to use this. I’ve been on very important calls when my boys started screaming and fighting. Don’t be afraid to use it.
Please note: It doesn’t always go smoothly, believe me.
I have done it all when trying to talk on a business call. I’ve changed diapers, wiped bloody noses, played games, fed kids, and even cleaned up an entire gallon of milk off the floor.
It’s really the best of both worlds. Working from home and getting to spend time with your babies.
So, remember to relax and breath. It can get stressful, but hopefully the person on the other end can understand or has been in your shoes before.
Do you have any tips to add?



















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These are wonderful tips, Tina. Thankfully, many of the calls we make are also with other mompreneurs in our industry, so they’re all in the same boat! I also tell my two boys (ages 7 & 5) that once I am finished with my phone call, I will come to them and we’ll play another game together or do some other activity of their choice.
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Yes that’s why I love having calls with you. You get it
Great tips! I remember the days of making sure the kids were occupied while I took an important call, but in the craziness of getting them ready I would forget a pen…a pen! You always need a pen! LOL
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It’s so easy, I’ve done that!
These are some great tips! I agree the mute button is indispensable!
I agree with all your tips! Great job!
JDaniel4′s Mom´s last [type] ..Read.Explore.Learn.- Curious George and Valentine’s Day Flowers
Thanks!
I always break out quiet “toys” and activities they love the most. Playdoh is the best in our house hold.
Jennifer B.´s last [type] ..Friday Fun with Lady and the Tramp
Yes until they smooch it into the carpets while I can’t get to them, lol. Or maybe that’s my kids?
This is a fantastic list! Since opening my business, I have had to take more calls from home (despite how hard I try to avoid it). I also do training sessions online, so I’m always looking for insight on how to better handle the kiddo when I’m working. Last time I had to make a call, I put every toy he owned in front of him to keep him occupied.
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It’s hard and you never know what can happen. That’s why I love mute, lol.
Oh yes I have to deal with this whenever my kids have days off or are home sick. I work from home full time. It is tough but luckily my coworkers understand.
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That’s important. I’m lucky too that most times my calls are with those that are in my shoes. It makes it a bit less stressful.
I will definitely follow these tips! And yeah, I’ve been on your shoes too, wit three kids mind you:)
Yes I can’t imagine with 3 kids!
I think you forgot #6: Buy Robotussin! Ha! Ha! Just kidding. Great tips. I’ve so been in this situation.
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LOL My kids never get tired, too much energy!
You’re brave! I don’t have a ton of calls to do in my work, and I always plan them when Daddy is available. However, your tips give me a little hope. Perhaps I will try next time. There is certainly no substitute for preparation, is there!
It’s hard but I work from home and I’m home with kids full time. My hubby works a lot of overtime so I have to make calls with at least one of them home. It’s not so bad when it’s just my little guy here….when the 2 of them are together you never know what can happen
Good luck!
This is funny – and also very helpful! It’s good to see I’m not the only one sweating the phone calls and handling behind-the-scenes drama while trying to maintain a professional demeanor : )
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It can be stressful especially when the person on the other end doesn’t get it and you can tell are annoyed, yikes!
This tip only works if you can choose who you’re calling — like I do as a freelance writer when I choose sources for stories — but another WAHM gave me this tip: since she’s on the East Coast, she schedules interviews with West Coast sources for the evening when her husband is home. 7pm Eastern time is still during the workday for West Coast folks. Brilliant!
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Yes that’s a great idea! Sadly my hubby is not usually home by then which makes it tougher for me. But I manage I guess